You're right, brainbeforebeuty28. I spoke with him about it and he says he's stopped texting her as much. But I remember a text of hers hoping they'd always be friends. He texted back that they'd always remain friends. Then called her "mistress of my life." I'm not sure what that meant. I know I'm dwelling on this. But I think he did somewhat maybe love her. Do you those type of feelings remain even if he's committed to me? I don't want to ask him stuff like that. But to heal, for some reason I need to know. It's a mystery to me. I am starting to look at him differently. It looks like a dead end situation.