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Old Feb 12, 2014, 07:10 PM
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Originally Posted by Jasmina View Post
Thank you, Healingme4me.

I have already made the move. I left my kids behind to stay with their dad. I needed time to get things ready before bringing them. My husband gave me permission to take them out of state. But we haven't figured out how we'll arrange visitation. I was surprised he let me take them. It makes me wonder whether he's setting me up. I've read alot about how abusive spouses will put the parent in jail for taking the kids out of state. I'm also afraid the court won't see my decision to move to be in our kids best interests. This is a mess. I think leaving gave me a new perspective.
His permission, needs a notarized signature. Anything more than 2-3 weeks, without something like that, is grounds for federal kidnapping charges. I know, all too well, all the laws and statutes, in process of a removal hearing, of my own, and my bff's brother is in a divorce custody dispute, of his own. Lots of research.