Yasmine,
As the first responder said so well, it's easy to find judgmental idiots who stigmatize BPD. But, there are many good people out there who compassionately understand borderlines and support their recovery. Try not to dwell on the bad people, and instead direct your energy toward finding messages of hope, support and acceptance toward BPD. There are many people out there who will give that message to you regarding BPD.