I was controlled out of fear when I was a kid. I became a controller when I grew up and got married. That destroyed my marriage. Then I decided that nobody would control me anymore. Now I just back off when people try.

Even with my feelings I can completely understand where you are coming from. I'm sure that what you are going through is difficult. I wish I had great words of wisdom for you but I don't. All I have is a listening ear and a heart that cares.