I am so sorry for your loss. She must have been a wonderful person and grandmother
Your question is a good one. Everyone experiences grief differently and there is no time limit. At the same time people in grief do sink into depression. It would probably be called situational depression unless you have a strong history of clinical depression. Situational depression would usually be handled through therapy rather then meds. Meds is a possibility but I suggest a grief therapist first.
I bet your daughter has the same need to be held. She can be as much a support to you as you to her.
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