I am asexual. Would that be considered by some a gender issue. I am disgusted by the thought of both...as though its abnormal... I didn't always think like that. I even try to make jokes about how hot some guy is...in reality, it seems abnormal to me.
I have 2 kids...and I made them not having these issues... It was all great...
...now sex disturbs me... even though I can talk about it... and probably fix any ones sexual hindrances in a relationship...LOL