Hi Gab,

You have so much to gain and can only get better if you leave this man. I could use a dose of strength too. I think that with the affair, he had you right where he wanted and now to him you justified every bad thing he has ever said to you. Is it worse this time around than the first time? I hope you can get yourself in a good position to get out. Life is too short to be miserable. I didn't sleep at all last night thinking about how I will get rid of my toxic girlfriend. I am making a plan of action, so you do the same and maybe we can share strategy.
good luck,
Sesquix