I think such a couple would make a perfect match. It is my dream! She would be like my Laura Wingfield--the avoidant female charactor from Tennesee williams The glass menegerie. I even wrote a song called "Blue roses" her nickname from the play. It might be a virtual impossibiltie for two severe Avoidants to ever meet, but I'm not giving up! My search will continue. And someday I actually wanna write a semi-autobiographical poem with her help, called "Always and Never". As I've heard these words are commonly used among people with personality disorders, while they rarely mean them. I might be the sole exception ib that case. Lol jk. peace out for now.