This may sound dumb, but to me it's a big deal . My husband is a very, very messy person and it's really getting to me. Messes make me nervous and depressed . He knows this . And yes, I knew he was messy before we got married to some extent. But I really really hate when people say "you married him". Doesn't help.
That's not the only issue . I'm a little worried about him lately . Idk if it's the stress from his job or what but he just seems to be "regressing" . By that, I mean acting very immature. Idk what to do. I have to basically force him to do anything, and when I'm depressed I can't be pushing two people .
It's just wearing me out. I love him, it's probably not coming off like that in this post. I don't think I could live without him, but we need to be on the same page . I'm so sick of him avoiding issues, just because he's afraid of making me upset . I'll get more upset if you don't discuss something important with me!
maybe I'm just depressed because its Valentine's day. I don't do well on holidays lately .
Thanks for reading .