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he will not accept my kid and does not want kids and I do. I dont know if I can go through life without anymore kids. Can someone help me out and let me know.
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((((samantha))))
I'm sorry you are feeling so low right now. But I think the answer to your issue with wondering if this man will stay with you is answered in your post......
He told you up front he does not want kids of his own. You say he will not accept your child. The sun may rise and set on this guy in your eyes, but why would you want to have a relationship with this man when he's telling you up front he won't accept your child or have any kids of his own?
I'm sorry if this is sounding mean spirited, it's not meant to be that way at all. But, why in the world would you want to compromise the well being of yourself and your child over this man? I'm not saying he is a terrible person, on the contrary, I believe he is being honest with you and you are not quite hearing what he is saying.
Please stop for a moment and listen to your gut instinct. Turn off your heart and the part of your brain that will make any excuse sound plausible....listen to your gut and you will know exactly where you stand and what you should do about it.
As far as you being bi-sexual...the only time it would be an issue is if you were seeing others aside from your mate, or if your mate didn't like that idea of your sexual orientation. If you are seeing other people outside of your relationship with him....that could be a problem.
I hope you can find the answers you are looking for. I wish you well on your journey....take good care of you!
Hugsssss
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