My husband and I have been together for 20 years, and we don't bother with Valentine's Day anymore. We did for the kids when they were little (and probably should do now), but as for us, it's just a day. Why get stressed and have to spend money? The best gift I ever got from my has and was a dozen roses, delivered to work, on just a random Tuesday but as for structured holidays, they seem to mean less as you get older.
I do get being jealous of tight families, though, especially now that my kids are nearly all grown up and moved away and I realize that failed just as badly as my mother to give my kids the perfect bonded upbringing... We're so disconnected, it's really sad. But I'm working on it

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