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Originally Posted by DylanP
It disturbs me of late the media in the UK bashing men who watch extreme or violent porn, almost suggesting that those who do watch violent porn or are in rough violent sex must be seriously perverted or be a potential rapist. The majority of men who watch extreme violent porn will never rape anyone or hurt anyone, a fetish for extreme sexual wants or acting out sexual violence with your partner is not a crime and if the woman is ok with this behaviour and she may enjoy it too, then why do all men get labelled as perverts?? If a woman writes erotica it is just her desires, yet if a man writes violent erotica he must be a total woman hater or perv?? Please, what a load of crap.
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The majority of men who watch violent or extreme porn have some underlying issues. I have watched it. I am not going to rape anyone. But let's see reality on reality's terms here. If you think that seeing women choked and slapped is sexually gratifying, then what do you expect the world to think about that?
It is does not mean you are a murderer. But it is the same thing with video games. Playing Grand Theft Auto and shooting people in the head all morning doesn't mean you are going to do that, but it is not healthy.
Same thing here. It is not healthy so view sex that way. The only type of sex I like is when the woman has the time of her life. That is what sex is supposed to be, mutual bangin'. So it says more about your sexual health when you view that than it does about whether or not you are going to commit the act yourself.
And if you were on our side and someone asked you that question, you would be thinking the same thing too. "This guy needs to get a little help for that before he lets it consume his life."
And violent porn is pretty much rape. The girls who do violent porn are not mentally healthy for the most part. The vast majority of them (I would even say almost 100%) have had some sexual abuse in the past whether it was from molestation or rape. Do you really want to masturbate to a woman reenacting that stuff in her life?
I want to have some Taxi Driver like guy just go into one of those dens one day and take care of business. But hey, we do not have time for rational solutions!