It realy is. You heard a thing so many times. That it gets into you even you don't think about it. Every time I pass by a known person and say hi! and smille I call my self stupid repetedly...When something are happening I just know I am, and I look, and I say, and I think, and I do stupid things.
Why we hurt ourselves this way? I just see does people so full of themselves and confidence and with just that they get whatever they want. I just can't get anywhere.