I agree with valexand. Why does he want to stay friends? What is the point in that? Send him the lyrics to You Keep Me Hanging On, by the Supremes. That is a perfect song for what your dealing with. I feel for you, I know its hard to break up with someone you thought you would spend your life with. I may be going through the same thing eventually myself, and not sure how I'll get through it. I Hope things get better for you.