Here in the States you can get a "therapeutic consultation". I had one with one of my first T's. The consulting T thought he and I were a bad fit for each other. Things ended with T soon after that, but I ended up with my longtime main T, so no regrets.
I WAS pissed that this early T could not "own" or take responsibility for his side of things. He would get defensive and say "my other clients think I'm warm and caring." To that I said, "Well then goodie for your other clients!!!"
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