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Originally Posted by always_wondering
I am going to take a shot at this. From all my research, sounds like your T represents the support you were not given as a child.T gives you comfort like a mother should do with her child. Now the area I am really curious about is why does this comfort sometimes becomes a sexual yearning? There is a connection, what is it?
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Nice shot though...ummm but NO! lol
There is a lot of psychological research that is ridiculous. Especially Freudian ideologies. Where sounds very close to where your stemming your ideas from. Unfortunately I have studied him and much of so called Psychology.
My issues with him do not stem from childhood, but only what is happening now in the present. Also I am not sexual. He does not give me some long lost attention that I may not of gotten from my childhood. Its not some long lost mystery unsolved.
...next I cannot stand his superficial demeanor, which I have told him about often. I have literally and bluntly rejected some of his approaches to me. I am person who cannot stand superficial flattery. (he knows that, which I have explained to him and he does many times) I am not a person who needs to be bottle fed and nor even given a compliment.
He gives me no motherly type comfort and nothing I would never desire in a parent, spouse, or other.
YOUR WAY OFF!!! NICE TRY THOUGH... a little creepy ...but nice try...LOL
(I mean that humorously don't take it personal)