The thing is, you're still a "real" woman in mind and body. My body is female and I suppose I'm seen as "female", but mentally/gender-wise, I don't think I'm "female". I sometimes wonder if I'm allowed to be on this board, but physically I'm female, so I guess I am. But why would a guy like me? Wouldn't that make them kind of gay? And most straight guys seem to be self-conscious about appearing gay.