Are we supposed to be attached? Personally I think the whole attachment thing is just an illusion. Of course many are attached and love their therapist. ...but I think people should get real honest with themselves and face reality about it.

Fact is, if you ran into your T when they were among their friends or family. don't ever think they would consider you there equal.
In reality, as little as they give to you in therapy which may be even more than anybody even your own circle of friends. They actually think you should pay them half your pay check just to talk to them. ...and I am sure their own friends that doesn't have to pay for their words, will get more close to them then you ever will.

Excuse me, but I think therapy should be honest and stop pulling people along.