I can relate to Kala. I hate having to REMIND my bf to be Thoughtful & sentimental & . I got flowers,a card & candy, but he sent my daughters to go pick it out for me. But it's the thought. That was Only After I made a big deal about how it was just another day and I haven't gotten anything for Valentine's Day in the six years we have been together! I don't like feeling like I guilted him into "a romantic gesture". I wish it came natural to men, but it seems as though they have to be reminded what a woman wants or needs from them. lucky for us men aren't as hard to figure out. Lol!