(((((((((((((((((((((Zorah))))))))))))))))))))))))) I wish I had an answer for you other than to maybe set up some type of automatic pay system with the utilities so you know the bills have been taken care of.

If you call the water company they will tell you what your bill is and where to send the money.

The government also has people that can help you get all your identification back. You may start with motor vehicles or social security.

I wish I was more help and I hope you get the help you need. Please just take care that you continue to control how and where your money is spent. Even very well intentioned people can be led astray.