My ex has directv, which is charged to my credit card, basically because he's lazy and won't go to the bank to figure out what is wrong with his card. I, as an enabler with low self esteem, thought nothing at the time of this. To note, he has had two years to figure out what to do with the damn card, so there is no excuse there. So, it was charged to my credit card and he simply paid me back in cash.

Last time, which was a few weeks ago, he paid me three months in advance. Since we broke up, this is a problem because I don't want to talk to him in three months time to see what he will do and I know that he won't fix it on his own. Also, I have the money and it would be wrong to keep it.

So, I texted him today to ask him how I could give him his money back, because I could not continue to have the service on my card. I have told him several times before to fix the situation with his own card so that I can transfer the service to him, but as I said before, he can't bring himself to do it. The problem that I'm having now is that he won't answer the damn text. I have not insisted, and I know that he's online.

So now I'm working myself up and getting really angry about it, firstly because it's impolite and I'm not saying anything unreasonable (in fact, I intentionally made that text as nice as possible), and secondly, the more time passes the more I remember every time he used me and was an ungrateful and unsupportive bastard. It's also partly me being angry at myself for letting it happen, and even worse, sucking up to the guy (jalarle bolas como una pendeja).

I'm thinking about just canceling the service and telling him to go **** himself with the money. If he wants it back he'll actually have to get off his butt and get it. And I know that doing that will piss him off because he spends hours in front of that tv. I'm so angryyyyyyyyyy! Someone please tell me if I'm overreacting about this, I just think it's so rude! I've already taken 6mg of lexotanil to calm down and I am still super angry, but I have not contacted him again.

Btw, I sent the text at around 1400, so it's been some time now.