Growli, I've been supportive of LCM and her interactions with you in residential. And I still believe she can be of great help to you. But this ambiguous relationship--what her role is and isn't, what exactly her credentials are, is she in practice or not, is she licensed, what's her relationship to TT--creates a level of chaos that produces needless anxiety for you. It could be that the structure of the residential program was a good fit for her strengths, but without that structure, she is floundering. I'm not sure that she is clear what her role as a life coach is: she seems to be bouncing around between therapist and big sister. I think it would be best for you to talk this out with TT. Did they ever meet and discuss relative roles? I remember you saying that was the plan, but has it happened yet?