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Old Feb 16, 2014, 03:10 AM
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Ok, first off, I currently have an apartment. It sucks. The noise and ants are terrible. Otherwise it's fine. My lease is almost up and I have two choices: renew my lease for another six months or move in with my boyfriend and his parents. (Now before y'all assume he's a deadbeat because he still lives with his parents, he's 26 and his parents are disabled and in their 60's. He has to help them around the house and stuff.) The problem with moving in with him is they barely have any room for my stuff. They keep telling me they'll make room but I have a hard time imagining that. They have a lot of stuff because they live in the late grandparents' house and their stuff is still there. It's not quite as bad as a hoarder situation but it's still a lot. The other thing is they still own their original house they were living in next door. We could move in there but it is uninhabitable at the moment. It's old, needs repairs, and there is so much crap in that house. It needs a good cleaning out and a scrubbing from floor to ceiling. What I could do is move in my boyfriend's room rent free, find somewhere to put my stuff, and help him clean the other house so we can move in it. My parents would so not be happy with me if I did that even though I'm a grown *** adult at almost 24. I could tell them I moved in with my friend Kim to keep them from b*tching at me. OR, just renew my lease at the apartment. That or rent free at my boyfriend's. I am not really sure what I should do. I have a hard time making major decisions due to my depression and anxiety. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
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