I've been with my bf for a little over 2 years. People from his church and his friends have told me how much he's changed over the years and how mean he used to be. He's nice to me but I've seen him be super mean to other ppl in a handful of occasions but it was when he was standing up for me...the other day we were playing around I threw water on him and everything changed. He slammed down the pot he had in his hand and got really close to my face and said something along the lines of I'm done playing but he had his hand up like he was going to hit me. He doesn't remember raising his hand to me. I'm but sure what to think of all this.