Hi Nowheretorun,

You didn't say anything wrong, it's just that your absolutely right, why do we stay? I am not physically abused, but I've been emotionally beaten up for a while, I really don't think my husband is even aware, thats just kinda how he is. (See this is why I feel stupid) I am explaining away his behavior, while I sit and put up with it. I don't know, I really don't know why I stay............ I just really don't know how to leave, I've tryed ummm 5 times, and every time, he makes my life so bad, as far as the kids hate me, I am a bad mommy, etc,.... to make it all go away I come back. It's just easier that way, you know? No, you don't know..... anyhow, I won't babble anymore, I was real reluctant to reply anyhow..

See ya later gator, Beth Anne

Beth Anne

This too shall pass!