I don't enjoy feeling like a maid. It's not important to him to have a clean house . I think the only way our place will ever be clean enough is if we get a maid, which is ridiculous . I've brought up the idea of a "chore chart" , sometimes he goes along with my ideas. But he only cleans when he gets in the mood. Unfortunately, I get in very depressed moods where I don't want to clean either .
I just don't get how some of my friends have such clean houses! Even with kids. Sorry, just feeling really lousy. Now he's sick, because he didn't listen to me and spent all day out in the cold. He does this every time .