Yeah he has gone about it all wrong I agree but he isn't worth the time of day if he can't give you closure so u do really need to put this down to experience and live as you learn sorta thing. He doesn't deserve you and u need to realise that. I honestly don't think he's man enough and think he possibly had it on his agenda for a while but felt the need to cling to u for support while he for thru it. And used you. I think now is time to work on your esteem and let him go xxx