My experience has been that I allowed someone to guilt me into staying in a relationship where I was not happy or satisfied. I was being convinced that she was unpleasant towards me because it was my fault. I was not successful enough to take care of her the way she desired so I was not worthy. She couldn't love me the way I needed because I didn't give her what she needed. So I worked for years to become better and more successful but falling short partly due to my bipolar. Well... Here's my two cents... Don't let someone else that you care about bf gf family whatever have the power to guilt you into feeling like a terrible person for wanting something else. He may be a great guy... But if he's not right for you then you're going to end up resenting him and treating him badly. Just my thoughts. For you to decide. It's often hard to do the right thing... I still haven't

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