Lol muay! So true- let me guess, guilty as charged!

Light, honey- we say this coz we care. He is guilty- not that it will help. It's not you, really- I used to hate hearing that. But it's not. They want to see what else is out there- which is not a reflection on you, it simply means they are scared - afraid to be in one place, with one person for too long. So they meet someone who is totally wrong, which means they can try again in a few months with Someone else.
I am not a jerk, I know you don't want to believe it, hell, you probably won't. That's ok too- hey we are strangers, what do we know?
But the reality is, he cares enough not to hurt you directly. He care enough about himself to not tell you the truth and risk a verbal bashing.
Trust me one day he will return.
Oh and just one more thing- stop and think- there is always signs, many signs that we ignore. Go over it carefully. Nothing happens overnight, unfortunately.
I wish you all the love in the world and ability to move on xxx