My 22-y/o BP boyfriend is not on medication or getting therapy. We were supposed to go this week but he suddenly bailed last week. Why did he bail? I don't know. But things were going relatively well (and I say relatively because he was being distant with me for two weeks and last week he said he hates me but he loves me) when I happened to mention to him that I wanted to go out with friends I haven't seen in months. His distance towards me jumped several hundred kilometers farther. He suddenly said that he's leaving. That he doesn't want us anymore. That it was over. He hasn't contacted me since then.

It's been five days and I broke No Contact today. I asked for my things back and also wished him well and told him that he always has a friend in me to support his journey to recovery. Still no reply. I checked his Facebook and lo and behold: he has a new picture with his ex up, and he was wearing the shirt I gave him for Christmas. He even changed his email profile photo to it. That's how I feel he's doing it on purpose to either hurt me or make me feel jealous. What should I do?

He has broken up with me a few times before, but it only took a day or two for him to come back and he never did something like this. What's the likelihood of him coming back to me right now? What can I do to make the hurt I feel right now go away?.. Will he still come back like he did before?