I think that's what we have to hold onto. They (these IRL "friends") have no idea who the **** we are. It's their freakin issues they aren't owning. I agree. It is vile. I don't blame you for being angry.. I think it's "normal" in a situation like this. We may feel it more intensely but we don't choose to be angry because of being mistreated, it's a natural reaction. This is a safe place to vent I'm sorry you've been betrayed in this way.