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Originally Posted by lynn808
So sorry angel,
Its hard when people disappoint you...but worse when you feel they have an agenda....hope you know that not everyone is like this....anger is often taken as freaking out...also misunderstood....I am hoping you and your boyfriend are stronger and smarter than to let someone insignificant come between you...keep the lines of communication between you and your boyfriend open...have a hand holding conversation about why he feels he cant tell you everything and decide if you do the same....hold hands the whole time and talk...just talk about it hun....you can come out of this stronger and with more respect for each other...take care now hun!!!!
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Well we talked it out fairly calmly. That was a big step for me. He is a wonderful man, and I understand why he reached out to this person. She also has BPD, and so he wanted perspective from her on a tough situation for us. My main issue was HER. Telling him to leave, all the while never saying anything to me when I thought we had forged a nice relationship online. People with BPD tend to idolize and my fear is she was doing that with him to gain attention that she's not getting. It's wrong and one of the worst parts of BPD. I am grateful that I have the guy that I do. He would never stoop as low as she did.
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