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Originally Posted by Elektra_
hi. sorry but im going to be honest. i think ur immature to be living with someone already. u cant use BPD to excuse ur behavior and do nothing about it. in fact u need to start trying to control it, specially the need of attention 24/7. u need to sort urself out before u get into a relationship. tc
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I'm gonna have to respectfully disagree with this.
It's my understanding that you've never been in a dating relationship before. Until you are, you won't be able to understand how complicated that dynamic can be. I'm not at all falting you for trying to help, but I can certainly see how the OP may have found this upsetting.
-OP- (Origional Poster)
I think you and him should maybe think about any way of getting away from this room mate. Whether it's her moving, or you guys moving. Even a non would feel pretty insecure and grow increasingly irritable with that situation unfolding. I wanna validate you for that.
I'm glad that you're mindful of your symptoms, and that some of your behavior is a little less than aacceptible. The first step to changing behavior is knowing and agnoleging it.