I made a plan to leave my abusive husband. To clarify he has never laid a hand on me though he has threatened it. However he has a lot of abusive tendencies that he doesn't see anything wrong with. His dad has an anger problem that he grew up around so he thinks its ok, and his mom was abused so I don't think she fully realizes what is going on. She thinks it all is normal and tells me to stay, when everyone else tells me it's wrong and to leave him.

I had made a plan to leave, but then he finally went to anger management after something happened that may get him fired from his job. That is the ONLY reason he's gone. Not for what he's done to me, for beating the dog, for breaking a lot of things around the house...I'm glad he's getting help but once again it worries me that he only went because his job is in jeopardy.

He is seeking help, but I don't know if that is going to fully change him. I'm beginning to feel like I'm crazy and that I'm blowing it out of proportion even though I know I'm not. I'm just so confused.

Help?