Hi Bazzinga, I agree with all the previous posters. Sometimes I find it helpful when I parse down my problem, I realize it is not easy. An example of this would be if you had a hard time with someone at work. Perhaps you felt ignored. You would write your post, feeling ignored at work, and then describe what happened. That way those of us who do try to help have a beginning and an end.
Another area to try is the chat rooms, I like the emotional chat room. Unfortunately sometimes they get too crowded and we are all vying for the limited amount of attention. If you are a little patient you'll find your opportunity. Good luck and hang in there