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Originally Posted by leomama
I agree that it probably isn't a good idea to live with your partner until you get your borderline under control. It is a relationship disorder and your relationship is complicated by a third party. I agree with people about individual therapy and DBT, and your boyfriend could also benefit from both of those. Bpd is the most challenging disorder to have in a relationship.
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I agree that living with my significant other may not be the best of things, but as I stated before; we lived together as friends first, the relationship came later. And it would make no sense to me to say "Oh, now that we are dating I'm going to move out." So instead we make it the best we can.