Sorry you're having a hard time, Apotheosis. Life can be challenging. I'm feeling that myself these days. Working hard to improve things, but sometimes it seems hopeless. My mother also has dementia. I'm considering packing up my chickens and moving to her house, but I'm not sure how much it would help her since my job is an hour and 15 minutes from her house, so I'd be gone most of the day anyway.

I wish there were answers. Like you I'm just plodding on.