Hi, I'm a schizoaffective woman in a relationship with a schizophrenic guy. We relate perfectly because we understand each other, but can never live together because we each wake up at different times at night and are very tired after short visits. Sleep is particularly important for me. So I visit his mountain or he visits my valley once a week and we have a fabulous time. We're both Christians, so this relationship is highly frowned on. How to live outside the social norms?