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Originally Posted by peaches100
More quotes. . .
"hahahaha". . .
"I find that trait completely obnoxious and avoid people like that both online and in real life. . ."
and. . .
"personally cannot abide it. . ."
Wow, Asiablue, until now, I liked reading your posts. But now that you've shown such a critical, disdainful viewpoint of people with issues like mine, I see a different side to you.
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Aww Peaches.
She may not have been referring exactly to what you're struggling with.
I don't know your story but many of us struggle with not knowing just how special we are supposed to feel or act.
One person sticking up for himself might be described as another person as selfish.
The bar is different for everyone. I think Asia meant people who demand to be the center of attention at all times. And of course those kinds of people end up with few friends.
Also, Asia might have someone specific in mind who behaves obnoxiously (to her). And that may or may not describe how you act, too.
I'm trying to build a healthy tolerance for points of view that are convicting and make me feel self-conscious. Maybe I need to change my behavior or maybe that person is wrong, or maybe that person is dealing with a different set of circumstances.
"Drama" is such a touchy subject just because we all have different definitions for what is dramatic.
I mean, Stopdog hates exclamation points.
But I love them!!!!