Asiablue,

You stated:

. . .that total blindness of how their actions affects others

Can you see that you have also shown blindness by not considering how your statements in this thread affect others?

We all make mistakes and err. But when we choose to point the finger at somebody else as having traits that we find obnoxious and can't abide, we often lose sight of the fact that we too can be thoughtless and affect other people in a negative way.