I worry, too, about my husband. He didn't sign on for this and living with me is, for the most part, depressing in itself. Good days are few and far between.

However, you have to have hope that things will improve. It could be in a week, a month, or a year. But they will get better.

I suggest that you have a daily check in with him. I usually simply email my husband at work and tell him it's a bad day or an okay day. That way, when he comes home from work he's prepared that I might be in bed and don't want any pep talks or tales of work.

Congratulations to you. Try to be positive about your relationship.