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My boyfriend is not interested in sex anymore. To be brief.. we met online about a year ago, and have been together ever since. We're very close, he's extremely affectionate with me, attentive, thoughtful. I know he loves me and cares for me. He pays attention to all the little things I like and tries extra hard to be there for me, and I appreciate it so much.
When we first started talking, we were all over each other, which is natural. We have amazing sexual chemistry, we connect so much, and we both always talked about how compatible we were. It was very satisfying, despite the distance. It's been a few months now though that we don't ever connect like that. And it doesn't make me happy. I feel insecure about it, and I torture myself remembering how things were when he was all over me.. Now I'm lucky if that kind of intimacy happens once a month. I tried talking to him, and he explained it to me in several ways, most of it being the frustration of the distance. I don't know what to do. I get very sad thinking about how things were, and I tried talking to him many times. The last time we discussed it, he told me he'd try to reevaluate how he sees that connection, and not just look at it as >what we can't have for now<. But nothing has changed. I don't know if it's selfish of him, because he knows what this does to me, and he's not really making effort to work on that connection again.
Thoughts?
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