I don't know that we have crossed paths but I am sorry you feel neglected.

I agree that this is a depression forum and people tend to be self involved. Me too. There is also the component that it is an online social network which tends to have an isolating effect. You do not have the advantage of visual, sight sound, eye contact and touch. What you perceive to be happening may not be what is happening. The person could be unable to communicate effectively or they appreciate what you have to say and just don't express it. I hope that helps somewhat.