Just be honest and let your therapist know how you are feeling. I was in a sort of similar situation where my therapist was focusing on things I didn't want to focus on and pushing the things I did want to focus on to the side. Finally I told her how I felt last week and while she didn't seem completely receptive to what I said I think this weeks session will be better.

I also agree with the other posts, being pushed can be a good thing, it can really help you, but don't let the T push you too hard. As for missing the hugs and things like that, that is rough, I have never had a therapist hug or really touch me so I am not sure what that is like.

Give it a few more tries or try talking to her.