I have borderline personality disorder, ocd that seems to go away for some time then come back, and I think add. But my main question is about bpd and how to find my identity..does anyone have any tips, experiences, advice to share..books to read or anything..all people change, but where to draw that line between what is normal and what is part of bpd..I have dbt skills workbook written by Matthew Mckay and I am trying to help myself to recover on my own. I hope that it is possible..