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Old Feb 18, 2014, 09:13 PM
Yearning0723 Yearning0723 is offline
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I recognize that she's a person too, and I was laying some tough stuff on her today and I know that, and I get that maybe she needs some time to process this herself before dealing with me, and I could see that she was actually more upset than I was when I was telling her this stuff (which was nice, actually), and I know it's her right to set boundaries and if I don't like them I have the option to find another T...it just felt...cold. Uncaring. After a super caring session. My stuff again.

Maybe I was upset because she was telling me that I need some more time to myself to process this before trying to do anything about it or even talk more with her about her. That is untrue. I've been doing some really good self care for the past few days and she said, "Just keep doing a lot of self care for the next week," but I'm done with self care and ready to actually deal with the problem. If she has an issue with talking more about it, I get that. But saying I need to not talk about it and just deal with it myself for a week for my own good is just blatantly false.
Thanks for this!
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