I recognize that she's a person and has the right to put boundaries where she's comfortable with them (she's trying to model this for me, I think), but yeah. This. I know if I hate it so much I can just find a new T, as many on here have told me before, but the thing is, most Ts aren't perfect (except possibly yours, HazelGirl, from what you've told me about her) and I've done some research looking for other Ts who specialize in all of my issues and do trauma work and also are knowledgeable about and comfortable with LGBT issues and whose offices are fairly accessible by public transport...I think she's the best I'm going to get. Everything else is wonderful; she responded so well to all the stuff I was scared of telling her; it's just this boundary thing...