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Originally Posted by HazelGirl
I am so sorry. That's really hard. I totally blew my last appointment, and now I will have to wait until next Tuesday to actually talk about the things I wanted to talk about at yesterday's appointment. I spent my appointment avoiding what I really wanted to talk about.
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I'm sorry this happened to you, too, HazelGirl. It's tough.
The only thing we did get to discuss even a little was mentor-figure's disclosure, and I just wanted to mention to you that T's reaction was the exact same as yours - literally, "If she's telling you this stuff, what else is she keeping hidden?" Also, she thought it was actually a traumatic thing and I wasn't overreacting and I needed to decide whether I was comfortable with this level of emotional intimacy or not. I think I am, but I need this relationship to be more transparent, so I think I'm going to bring it up with her and ask her why she told me that because it felt important to me.
Okay, I CAN problem solve on my own. I just prefer to figure these things out with T. She's a good sounding board. (But so is PC, so there's that.)