I know. I am a worrier, too. I try to remember I could have it worse to make myself feel better, so I was hoping that that would help you. I'm sorry if it sounded like I was trivializing your problems. Yes, you do have a lot to deal with. Certainly a lot more than I do.
Let's see if folks here with ADHD have anything to say.
Are you wondering if somebody could have ADHD along with your other problems? I certainly think so.....