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Originally Posted by HazelGirl
This I agree with, but I'm also trying not to criticize your T since she does have some good qualities. It's just that her attitude about her boundaries would be a complete deal-breaker for me. I think they are definitely not what you need in terms of support right now.
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I agree, for the most part, but I don't think I'm going to find anyone better. I think I'd rather a T who understands all the issues I'm facing and is attuned to me and reflective and validating and supportive and empathetic for just fifty minutes a week instead of giving her up to find one that can be all of those things and have looser but still safe boundaries.
Right???